Erich,
Sorry that I did not read 100% of all posts, but I must go to bed before 3 AM, so I just wanted to post something before leaving the site and forgetting. I enjoyed the conversation with JJ. Sorry about some ignorant responses you received from some people, and especially for your experience with "LTD members" in the past. I put that in quotes, because anyone can sign up, but there's a big difference between signing up and showing up.
I know when someone's parents think a certain way, it's difficult not to believe the same way. You spend a great deal of your life inputting (is that a word?) their words into your mind, so it's only natural that you would take the same side.
I too am an LTD member, and have been for the past 2 years. I know you don't know me, so you have absolutely no reason to listen to what I have to say.
I grew up as a missionary kid in Quito, Ecuador. I went to a missionary school, and was taught the Bible my entire life. After graduating, I went to Moody Bible Institute and received a degree in Bible/Music. At this moment, I am married, have 2 wonderful boys, and am the worship leader at my church. I'm not saying this to try to boost myself up, but just to let you know that I'm not just some guy that got "duped" into joining some organization. When I started my business, the hardest thing for me was people talking about money. That was also the hardest thing for my wife. Everything else was great. The people were so positive, the atmosphere was great, the leadership was a group of people that I could really look up to as strong spiritual leaders. I didn't have contact with any of the "big guys," other than through CD's, but what I knew was that I was among the real deal. I found something that I have never found in any church or mission organization, and that I have never seen in any business. I found people who had real convictions, and who stood by them no matter what. I found people who knew what they believed and couldn't care less about just pleasing people. They did what they did because it was the real them. It was what they knew was their calling. And they did it for the right reasons.
But here's the thing: it was a business. And it is a business. Quixtar/Amway (Yes, that's no secret) has certain regulations, but basically they let people be independent and run their businesses the way they want to. Even LTD, when they have a non-denominational Christian, optional church service, also pays to have rooms available for people of other faiths to meet in.
I can't give an exhaustive list, but here are some of the character traits of the LTD leaders, and what they actually teach (and follow) as a part of their business:
1. Men do not associate with married women without their husbands present. If a man calls another man and the wife answers, be polite, ask how she's doing, and ask for her husband. Do not carry on a long conversation. Do not even allow the appearance of anything remotely resembling anything inappropriate.
Php 2:15 That ye may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation, among whom ye shine as lights in the world;
2. Serve others, regardless of whether it looks like you may receive a benefit. But also realize that when you sow, you reap.
Gal 6:7 Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.
8 For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.
9 And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.
10 As we have therefore opportunity, let us do good unto all men, especially unto them who are of the household of faith.
3. Take hold of what you have in Christ! We have Christ in us, and therefore we have at our disposal His power to do what He has ordained for us to do.
Eph 3:20 Now all glory to God, who is able, through His mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think.
2 Tim 1:7 For God has not given us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, of love, and of self-discipline.
Mt 7:7 Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:
8 For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.
9 Or what man is there of you, whom if his son ask bread, will he give him a stone?
10 Or if he ask a fish, will he give him a serpent?
11 If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?
3 Jn 1:2 Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.
I could list so many more.
This is the main reason I love this team and the reason I am writing this: it is the only place that I have seen God's will truly being done in a right, pure manner, without any of the stuff going on behind the scenes that happens so often. Christ told us to go make disciples (Mt 28), and this is the only place that I really see it being done. I've seen lots of people get saved throughout my life, but I've also seen a lot turn away. LTD is focused on healing the WHOLE man, and creating an atmosphere and system where true prosperity is taught and encouraged (and monetary gain just happens to be one area of prosperity). I have seen people's lives (including mine, even though I already had an excellent foundation) completely changed for the better. I've seen people find their true calling. I've seen people go from being self-serving and not really knowing what in the world they're doing here (Christian or not), to becoming powerful tools in the Kingdom. I've seen relationships restored, marriages restored, dreams and hope rekindled.
John Eldredge wrote a book called "Waking the Dead." In it he writes a powerful statement: "The glory of God is man fully alive." Christ came to give us exceedingly abundant life! Yet we have become satisfied with just getting by. God has so much in store for us, yet many times we miss it because we don't believe it.
Just tonight, I returned from an optional "meeting after the meeting after the meeting." I listened to a guy talk about Peter walking on the water, and how his getting out of the boat was an example of extreme discipleship and obedience. He used the boat as an analogy of whatever is keeping us from our calling. The boat resembles those things that keep us comfortable outside of our calling. We have to get out of our comfort zone in order to step into that calling. People usually teach on fear when they teach this passage, and, while that can be a message, the true message is obedience! This was extreme obedience! We think he failed because he sank, but at least he left the boat. The others sat there and watched. His final point was that, when you get out of the boat, 2 things may happen: You may fail (but Jesus will be there to pick you up), but every once in a while you will walk on the water.
This is my question to you: Have you seen a group of people that has the above standards, and that actually follows them? Have you been involved in a group of people that is actually discipling people, and creating an atmosphere of discipleship that creates a craving to move on and become better?
This team is real, and they are above reproach. If you really do your research, and get to know some of the real people on the team, you'll see that what I'm saying is true. Even now, as you read this, your heart is telling you that the words are true, because you and I both have the Spirit. Please, if nothing else, don't hinder what God is doing through LTD. Remember what Paul said about the people who were preaching the Gospel in a way that would harm him? He said he didn't care, because whatever the case, and whatever the motives, the Gospel was being preached. So even if you don't believe what I'm writing, the Gospel IS being preached, people ARE coming to Christ, and people's lives ARE radically changing as they are discipled through the system of mentorship that LTD has set up.
This is a business that is built with people. Since we are all independent, we are allowed to build the business as we choose (to a certain extent, as allowed by Quixtar/Amway). As with anything else, if you listen to the people who failed, you will get bad advice. It's just an opinion. But if you listen to the people who have succeeded, you get good advice.
Sorry this was a lot longer than I intended. My heart is so full. I love this team so much. I know you are only writing these things in ignorance, because you don't know the team. I just hate seeing the team I love being torn down or hampered in any way. I hope I have helped you or someone else who may be reading this.
May God bless you exceedingly abundantly, beyond anything you might ask or think...
Your Brother in Christ,
-Tim